Saturday, October 20, 2007
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was thinking it through. hmm. how should i put it. ok. its better to give up one man's ways for the good of those around him.its plain selfish to neglect those around him for his own wishes.its even worst if its for his own benefits. anyway, yeah. thats something like that that i plan to change too. and i was just thinking on my way home. who do i listen to.well, it turns out that its only my aunty, her husband, her mum,my dad, number 1, and a few of my band friends. like less than 5 of the band pals.in total, thats like less than 10. ok, 10, if i have a gf that i am serious about.so ya, these 10 people. not that i am their puppet or what. like their wish is my command or something ahaha. its just that. there is a certain something that i see in them that allows me to willingly listen to them. like respect is one. something that they have earned from me that's the key.other than them, it usually ends up as one ear in and the other out.at least, i know that i can count on their advice. for the gf part, its lucky that my two ex gfs are more sensible than me, sadly.its not about whether i listen to them for advice or what. partners sometimes seek advice from each other. so the advice part is out.anyway, i was also thinking about that. the gf part. its always about a girl.number 1 is really solid when it comes to handling his woman.if he says 2, they wont say 1 hahah. what he says, goes. if they try to like, play cute or girly or what ever you call that, just to get their way.yes, at times he gives in, other times, he doesn't. and he's pretty firm at those times.for me, after a while i'll be like, ok la ok la.in time to come, i would be suffering while number 1 would be laughing. thats one thing i should take note hahah. more precisely said, its about the handling.oh my gosh, dad is playing crazy again. he's shopping online, going through what contacts he has just to check out new rims for the X5. dad always gets the rims part wrong.its matching, but not the best match with the rest of the car. still, it always turns out to be mean looking. can you imagine.a 4.8 litre, 2 over ton SUV driving pass at more than 200kmph.anyway, cant wait for it. think its due in nov. weee hahahahah.it really is practical for our family. 7 people can sit in comfortably.for our family, i would say 9. cause we are all so skinny ahhah. its really great inside, super spacious. and the best part, the under carriage will not get scraped whenever he drives over a hump.when dad brought me to the chinese sensei some where at serangoo.his M6 literally became like a see-saw. there was this high hump at the top of the car park slope.at first it was this loud metal against road sound, than it stopped.than dad was like, uh oh. pressed the accelerator and the car didn't budge.no choice, had to depress it further, than the scratching sound came again.heart pain man. ah, oh well. M6 is gone. time for the new ones. and hopefully the 7 series too HEHEHE. no la, kidding.
her terrible boy horribly blogged @ 23:03